Dear Friends, In our adolescence, we all dream of our soulmates, but for the majority of us, the dream fades as we grow up and confront life’s realities. It’s important to keep the dream of finding a soulmate alive but not lose the excitement. It’s time to take a step back if you’re looking for a soul mate out of boredom alone. You must enjoy yourself in company; You must be content with who you are. When it comes to the concept of a soulmate, maintain a healthy level of skepticism, but always remain open to receiving this miracle if it were to occur to you.
When you’re single, you have to be content, even though it sounds counterintuitive. Because you are already whole and give life meaning, no one will magically appear to restore harmony and meaning to your life. The inner you is what gives meaning; In the outside world, nothing is ever “found.” Figure out how to adore yourself before you search out your perfect partner. When you get used to being single, you also gain a healthy amount of self-assurance. Although you are looking, you are not yet ready to “settle.”
However, they are what you want and on the off chance that something like this occurs, be prepared to embrace the one that has been sent your direction by the universe. You won’t believe it! Frequently, our thoughts as well as our desires are unclear. This is superficial attraction, and we typically fall in love with an archetype—someone who represents a pop culture icon, a celebrity, a fictional character, or a parent. However, there is something preparing somewhere inside the cauldron of your subliminal that you’re basically not mindful of. When choosing a mate, always go with your gut and don’t let your own biases cloud your judgment. Please take your time. They won’t leave you, mate, if they are indeed your soulmate!
YOU are “YOU”:
You have a lot of ideas about your ideal partner, but have you given any thought to the possibility that your “soulmate” also has a similar list? There is a good chance that they also have specific wants and needs and are looking for someone who will live up to them. It’s time to be open with yourself: do you actually possess many desirable qualities or do you need to work on those areas? Make a list of your own expectations for your soulmate before you get started. When you write down your goals, you have made them crystal clear, and the universe quickly brings those thoughts to life. Fortunately, you may out of nowhere watch your perfect partner show up on the off chance that your idea structures were sufficiently able to build up speed in the profound world. Representation generally makes all the difference.
DON’T MAKE ANY EXPECTATIONS:
Prepare to be surprised by the coincidences that the universe sends your way. Be open and receptive to them. In the previous paragraph, I advised you to write down your expectations, but now I’m telling you to let it go! What does that entail? No, if you think about it in that way, it doesn’t seem so counterintuitive. The universe now knows what you expect because you set those intentions. However, your needs may not be in arrangement to what you really “need” to develop and develop. The universe works according to the laws of karma, so the person who is actually your karmic partner will show up in front of you, and they might not be what you expected.
Heads turn when they see a cheerful, self-assured face. Try it if you don’t believe me. Of course, you need to get your teeth fixed or else your attraction could turn into disgust, but you get the point. Going on a walk? Give that smile a try. Are you scheduled to see the dentist? Put on a smile—ok, maybe that’s a big request, but in general, always look friendly.
We tend to overlook warning signs because of the idealistic nature of the concept of a soulmate. Don’t fall into the narcissist’s trap of thinking they’re your soulmate; Kismet is not chemistry! Let the universe direct you where you need to go, but remember that the journey is just as important as the destination, so have fun!
KARMA IS DARK:
Never give the impression that a married person is your soulmate; even if they are, you won’t want the karmic consequences of breaking up a marriage. It’s best to stay away for the time being if you’ve ever felt this way about a married person. You never know when you might meet and discover that their relationship status has changed, at which point you might both be open to starting something new. Such situations do occur, and time and maturity are sometimes essential components of a successful soulmate relationship.
a. You know it already:
There is no test that can assist you in determining whether or not you have found your soulmate. You must have a gut feeling that this person is right for you. We know it sounds trite, but you’ll know what it means when you get that feeling. They should make you feel energized, at ease enough to fully open up, and just giddy with love. Naturally, different people have different ways of expressing connections, and feelings can change over time.
b. They’re your closest companion:
Why do you think so many romantic comedies feature two BFFs who fall in love? Friendship is the best foundation for any relationship. It’s a great sign if your SO and you have a good, trusting friendship.
c. Being with them feels like home:
Being with your soulmate feels like coming home, no matter where you are in the world. When they are by your side, you instantly feel at ease and comfort. Because you spend so much time with your partner, you should feel at ease when you are with them. Naturally, there will likely be nervousness and butterflies at first, but once you get used to one another, it should come naturally.
d. You have heaps of sympathy for them:
Because, in a sense, you feel each other’s emotions, when they fail a test, you might as well have failed it yourself. You get upset when you see them upset, but on the other hand, you share in each other’s happiness. You are prouder of your partner than anyone else, and nothing makes you happier than when they achieve success.
e. You have mutual respect:
Respect is the foundation of any relationship, so if your SO doesn’t value you for who you are, they probably aren’t your soulmate. Instead of dismissing your thoughts and feelings, your soulmate ought to care about them. They ought to always treat you with kindness and love.
f. You complement one another:
To be soulmates, you don’t have to be like your SO. You two could be meant for each other despite having different temperaments, upbringings, and backgrounds. The most important thing is how you two, two very different people, connect. Does your laid-back demeanor go well with their anxious demeanor? Does your affection for environmentalism coordinate well with their inclinations in designing? Fundamentally, would they say they are the yang to your yang?
g. Despite respecting each other’s differences, you agree on the essentials:
Although you will never be able to choose a television show to watch together or pizza toppings, you are on the same page when it comes to life’s most important matters, like your values.
h. You have the same objectives in life:
When it comes to important things, you both have plans that are similar when it comes to life goals. We are not suggesting that you wish to pursue the same career or attend the same college. However, you both agree on the values you want to uphold in your life and whether or not you want to start a family. There will undoubtedly be disagreements, but you are all on the same page regarding the important issues. That is a fairly accurate indicator of your SO’s long-term happiness.
i. You put each other to the test:
Your perfect partner ought to draw out the best in you, and that implies pushing you a little to turn into all that you can be. While you should admire and respect your partner for who they are, you should also help them grow as a person, encourage them to work harder when they need it, and help them reach their goals. Growth is at the heart of all relationships, and soulmates support one another in that process.
j. You are free to be who you are:
When it comes to your soulmate, you can’t hide your feelings. When you’re with them, you can be completely yourself and know they’ll love you for who you are. You know that telling them about your deepest secrets, quirks, and guilty pleasures will only make them love you more.
k. You battle for the relationship:
Even between soulmates, relationships aren’t always easy, but you both put a lot of effort into yours. This frequently requires making concessions, improving oneself, or discussing issues. Even if you disagree or argue about something, you come out of it stronger and with a better understanding of each other. The fact that you two are demonstrating your willingness to cooperate with one another and fight for one another is evidence that you are soulmates.
l. You both arouse the greatest admiration:
You should always have your SO’s back and vice versa. Their victories are also your victories, so when you hear big news, you get excited just as much as they do. It’s something very special when all you want to do is cheer up your boyfriend.
m. You can feel each other’s suffering:
On the other hand, you feel sorry for your SO whenever something bad happens to them. You also feel sad if they got a bad grade or had a fight with a friend. Since you only want the best for your boyfriend, you feel their disappointment equally.
n. There is attraction:
Naturally, a relationship’s physical side is important, and you and your SO definitely have it. Despite your mutual respect for each other’s boundaries, you sometimes struggle to keep your hands off one another.
o. You support one another:
Even though being in a relationship is a lot of fun, soulmates are there for you in good and bad times. When you’re going through a difficult time, you can count on your SO to listen to you and be there for you.
p. Your relationship is secure:
It’s completely considered common to get envious, yet you ought to have 100% confidence in your individual. You won’t have to worry about the state of your relationship because no one will stand in the way of your significant other going out with friends or missing a party.
q. You just want to hang out with one another:
The best thing is just being around each other. Sitting in silence and feeling each other’s presence lifts you up is possible. In point of fact, sitting together in silence is completely comfortable. It feels completely natural to just be near each other and read a book, scroll through TikTok, or keep a journal, so you don’t have to talk much. Conversations rarely come across as stilted or hurried.
r. You think you’ve known them forever:
Whether you’ve been dating for five months or five years, your soulmate gives you the impression that you’ve known them all your life. When you haven’t met them yet, it often seems impossible that they weren’t there for certain life events. Respect, admiration, and affection fill the connection, which is almost instantaneous and effortless.
s. You sometimes feel as though you can read their minds:
You can talk to your partner in a way that is so simple that you might even feel like you can read their mind at times. It could be that you and them are on the same page regarding upcoming plans or that you simply anticipate what they will say. You could likewise realize their looks so indeed, that you comprehend how they’re feeling without them saying a word.
t. Your family and friends get along:
If your friends and family get along well with you, it’s a good sign that you’re with the right person. Most of the time, your family and friends have been with you longer than your boyfriend or girlfriend, and they want to see you in a happy and healthy relationship. Their approval is very important. However, if there is a reason why a significant other does not like your partner, listen to their concerns and try to have an open and honest conversation with them. Trust your gut instincts.